Am in a bit of a quandry!!
Was chatting online to Ralph Wiggum a while ago (see posts from about a month and a half ago) and he told me that he fancies me and has since he met me. Whilst I was really flattered I was also really stumped coz - as much as I wish I did - I don't fancy him.
When we met we instantly clicked -as friends- and I felt so comfortable with him. I almost asked him out for a drink just coz he's so lovely and easy to talk to and we have loads in common and even more to talk about.
Anyway, he did ask me out for a drink and last night he messaged me saying "We really need to set a date for our..um..date. Don't want your ship to sail"
And we sorted it for Saturday night, but I don't know what to say to him if he brings up the whole 'us' thing.
I mean, this is how I honestly feel: I would happily come home to him everynight and snuggle up on the sofa watching tv, I'd go away on a silly holiday camping or something, I'd go shopping with him and hold his hand walking down the street. I honestly can't wait to see him and catch up, we'll have a really fun evening. I just don't find him physically attractive and don't fancy him in 'that' way.
So what do I say to him if he tries to kiss me or something?? I feel like I'm leading him on, but I really do want to go for a drink.
Help!!!!
XxX













2008-03-26 @ 20:14